When we fail in life, we are failing because we are being shown how our beliefs are out of alignment with success. In truth, there is no such thing as failure for it is only feedback. To stay on the path toward success, focus on being your best self. Avoid these seven habits of highly dysfunctional people.
1. Following a Belief System even when it goes against your Intuition
Intuition is a gift everyone is given but not everyone follows. It is one thing to listen to this inner, guiding voice and a whole other energy to follow. Ignoring your inner truth can lead to danger. As a recent example, video footage has since been recovered from the Sewol ferry disaster in South Korea showing students wearing life vests in their cabins while expressing heightened fears that the boat was sinking. Why did only 155 students survive the sinking of the ferry out of 454 total students? The high school students were told by crewmembers to stay in their cabins and wait. In the videos, it was clear that the students wanted to leave their cabins as they were listening to their inner voice that they were in danger. However, they chose to follow the belief system of obedience to their superiors as it is fiercely taught. The belief to obey the crew was stronger than the belief to follow the inner voice to safety. I do not write this in judgment of the students, crewmembers, or the culture. I simply use it as an example that belief systems can harm people when it disagrees with your intuition.
2. Ignoring Feelings
Anger, jealousy, resentment, fear, and depression are indicators that something is not aligned in our energy field. If you choose to stomp your feelings down or ignore them, you only delay the healing process. If you choose to hide from your feelings by taking anti-depressants, it’s like turning the volume of music to low or mute. If you want to be happy, you need to ask, “Why do I feel this way? What is the root cause of my misery?” When you choose to explore these feelings, you begin the healing process. Choosing to face your feelings and do something about it is a brave act. It opens the door to joy, love, and new opportunity.
3. Lying
When we do not speak our truth, lies become barriers to getting what we want in life. Lies create physical things that manifest as busy work and density. Honest answers create integrity and personal power. Truth creates a life of ease and flow.
4. Laziness and Poor Diet
Lack of exercise equals a poor tool for experiencing life. A diet of junk creates the wrong building blocks for a lasting body. When you eat healthy and exercise daily, the law of incremental effects is set into motion. You experience a sustainable attractor field of health.
5. Overspending
An addiction to spending is a glaring indicator that the individual is not comfortable or happy with oneself. No amount of spending will bring satisfaction until the person gets to the core of why he or she needs things. An addictive spender does not love himself. Loving yourself unconditionally is the key.
6. Gossip
A diet of gossip is like a diet of Velveeta. It might taste good for a while, but in the end you feel miserable because you put plastic into your body. A diet of kind words, truth, reflection, and love is the key.
7. Accepting Fear as Normal
Fear is a low frequency energy that is designed to control your mind. No one has to accept the rule of fear or dis-ease of thought. The opposite of fear is unconditional love, which is a frequency of confidence, sovereignty, and self acceptance.
Humans have a difficult time breaking free of negative, dysfunctional patterns because these patterns have been encoded into the operating system of their minds. They are like viruses running in the control panel of the mind. To break free of these patterns, it requires an upgrade and a removal of all malevolent programs. Golden DNA Activation is the key to the path of 7 habits of highly effective people.
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Deborah Bravandt is a business owner, energy healer, and certified Golden DNA Activation practitioner. Learn how to raise your vibration like a Guru at http://dna-heal.com.
I appreciate this article. I think you were able to touch on the entire person. Mind body soul and spirit as well. Dysfunction, for me after doing self examination, has been quite a down fall in me trying to manifest what I want to happen, but yet the opposite of my desire showed up. Thanks so much for sharing this article.
I believe that dysfunctional people lack the tools needed. we aren’t lazy. we may not overspend but when we formed our mindset we formed voids., not good habits and belief systems.
I need to write a book.
Ruthie…you are so right. We’ve seen that over our lifetimes.
Donna